Before Dan left I had a mental list of things I wanted to do or accomplish while he was away. Kind of a "to-do" list of sorts to keep myself busy, and always amidst a project. Some of which included paying off my student loan, doing my Nursing Certification, getting back in shape, making a better effort to stay in touch with friends, plan a kitchen reno, and redecorate our den, just to name a few.
Anyone can attest to the enjoyment of a good vacation. There is just something wonderful about visiting a place with friends or family, where the weather is nice, drinks are unlimited, and work doesn't exist. Its like a fully body massage, but for your mind. Therefore, there is no question that what I have found to be the most enjoyable and time consuming is my vacation habits! In the weeks since Dan has been away, I have already gone to Orlando, Florida, and just recently returned from a week in the Dominican Republic.
And when I am not globe trotting, I am planning when I will be next! For example, what will Dan and I do, and where will we go while he is home for his break; and what all-inclusive will we visit next spring and who will want to come with us. Most exciting though, is how I've almost completed the book "Italy for Dummies" and am ready to start my Italian language lessons for an Italy vacation next fall! IO sono così eccitato!
Some of my friends have questioned my desire to vacation without Dan, wondering if this in fact only makes me miss him more. And while I would love for him to be there in person, that doesn't mean he isn't there. I think about him where ever I am, be it at home, work, or vacation. And I always try to include him in whatever it is I am doing - my vacations are no different.... I mean, see for yourself!
| Couples who play together, stay together! |
| Dan enjoys a Strawberry Daquari in Punta Cana |